Watersports and Urinary Play

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All the risks below are possibilities of the listed activity. They are listed in no particular order. Please do not consider it to be exhaustive or use it as your sole determining factor when it comes to your safety. Some risk possibilities must nearly always be considered; a few of these can be found in the second tab below. Additionally, please note that the list below does not account for acts of intentional malice or for every complicating medical condition. Possible mitigation strategies or more information sometimes appear under risks when given. These should not be considered solutions that bring a risk to 0%, nor should they be considered the only possible solutions or information. Likewise, lack of a mitigation strategy or research being listed does not mean none exists.

Risks

Watersports

Please note: urine is not sterile, not even your own. This is a common misconception.

Ingestion of metabolic by-products of some drugs, both medicinal and recreational

Consider effects on contraception and interactions with other meds; possible consequences if ingester will be drug tested

Picking up infections if it passes over open wounds etc on the way

Passing on of any other infection that can be passed via bodily fluid

Dehydration over time (the idea that one can survive on one’s own urine alone is an urban myth)

Kidney infections and other filtration-related issues

Urinating into a vagina may negatively affect its pH level

Urinating into an anus may contain significantly higher risk of fluid bonding than external play

Change of habits for tops — the bladder is very susceptible to patterns, psychologically, and urinating more in certain situations may cause some to only be able to do so in those circumstances

Bladder Control

Increases UTI risk

Could lead to kidney infections or other problems

Other complications:

one person says, “I likely developed a (so far) incurable, lifelong bladder condition from bladder control. Same symptoms of a UTI & more, but no infection or treatment options. I would caution against intense/extended bladder control because it can cause damage to the sensitive tissues and muscles in/around the bladder”

Ever-present risks

Risks/possibilities to always consider include (but are not limited to):

Psychological trauma, which can be unexpected and long-lasting

A resulting lack of ability to communicate (incl. safewords)

Pre-existing conditions or triggers not being disclosed, therefore increasing other risks without the other party’s knowledge

Equipment failure and the risks therein, both of structural elements (e.g., furniture, hard points) and toys (i.e., risks resulting from the toy breaking and associated jagged edges, shattered glass, etc)

Medical and legal misadventures

If there’s an emergency, who will get this person to the ER? Do you know their first and last name(/how to get to their ID if not) if they’re unconscious? Does any party want/need a cover story, particularly if the answer to the consent-to-assault question is “no”? Has everyone agreed on one that is as close to the truth as possible (medical professionals need what fully happened)?

Can you consent to assault in your state (assault in this case = near any kind of pain purposefully inflicted on a person)? If not, is the person facilitating the experience prepared to accept consequences if a worst-case scenario happens?

Thoughts and reactions of overhearers/onlookers, both kinky and non

Increased danger that comes from the prevalence of whiteness in Fetlife and popular media kinky pictures, leading warning signs and various medical conditions unnoticed on darker skin

To learn how this might appear, please see Mind the Gap here.

Allergies

Fungal/Staph infections from shared equipment

Shock

Fainting from pain, dehydration, shock, prolonged standing etc. and hitting head/bone/nerve

Panic attacks and related symptoms incl. shaking (dangerous especially with sharps) and inability to communicate

Financial responsibility

There’s a very expensive world of possibilities between “nothing went wrong” and “death”; when folks cannot take time off work, complications from play lead to loss of income for some, and job loss for others (or increase of severity of injury/trauma due to lack of ability to rest)

Changes/decreases to ability to heal even if experienced before due to natural aging and wear on the body

Death

The Fetlife post version of this list is available here.